I'm building bigger events and I need your help

Hi friends,

I wanted to share something that’s been gently taking shape behind the scenes.

I’ve been experimenting with hosting in-person events that blend education, healing, and playfulness in a sex-positive container. These gatherings aren’t about performance or pressure—they’re about connection. Sexual play may be one option in some events, but there’s never any pressure to engage sexually—connection, presence, and choice always come first.

As I continue experimenting with different themes and formats, I’m looking to build a small “inner tier” invite list—folks who already know me at least in passing and resonate with my vision—who might be interested in attending these events at a reduced cost while I test and refine what I’m offering.

So far I've organized a group trip to a sex club, led various workshops on somatic healing and sexuality, and a full scale sensual play party with the theme of "Exploring the Four Elements of Sensual Touch." There will be similar things and more coming in 2026.

If that sparks curiosity for you—whether you feel a clear yes or just a gentle “maybe”—I’d love to know. There’s no obligation, just an expression of interest so I know who to keep in the loop as things unfold. You can reply to this email or comment to let me know you’d like to be on the invite list.

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That’s where I’ll be sharing updates as things grow.

Thank you for being part of the ecosystem that makes this kind of experimentation possible. I’m excited about what wants to grow here, and grateful to share it with people I trust.

With warmth,
Tonic